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Tara, I have a question that may fall under the
term Kundalini Syndrome. My husband & I are dealing with grief. Around 3 weeks after the initial loss, overnight my husband developed heart issues.

It's been about 5 weeks since the onset of his symptoms. He's going in for testing tomorrow. I woke up a couple nights ago understanding that while i knew what i was addressing, I was not emotionally connected. As the flow of grief came there were many threads involved going back decades. Later that day my partner's condition started to improve. I don't know if the improvement has been maintained till tomorrow. Have any thoughts on this?

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Originally posted by KundaliniTherapist:

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You mean Christian ultimate reality is different from Buddhist ultimate reality? Very postmodern!

As I said before, in terms of mystical experience ...

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Originally posted by Ona:
But my thought was that I am not a fan of avoiding using certain words because they have baggage or people feel uncomfortable with them etc.

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My own deepest resonance is the feeling of being held so tenderly, of the soul, the 'I', at rest in the beloved. There's no end to the depth of this, and perhaps that's another reason it's not as popular an experience as the pursuit of enlightenment. People seem to want some kind of resolution, an end state. In all of this, we're just beginners however. There's no end to the "riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints."

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What seems likely is that those who are drawn into deeper contemplative prayer become less Egoic overall. Their prayer acclimates them to non-reflective consciousness, and teaches them to live in this manner even outside the formal times of prayer. The open awareness, intuitive intelligence and detached willingness that characterizes non-reflective consciousness predominates as their normative state, with promptings from the Spirit influencing their actions through the day. They can still operate Egoically, if necessary, for life will continue to call forth times where intentional focus is required. But when the task is done, the awareness, intelligence and will invested in the Ego settles back into non-reflective openness and readiness. Such contemplatives live in the Self-God zone or ground of consciousness as their ordinary state. They have undergone deep religious conversion and so enjoy “being-in-love,” as Lonergan put it, without interruption.61

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... My husband & I are dealing with grief.

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Originally posted by ~Tarantella~:
...But grief like love is something strong enough to completely break down the barrier that separates one from another.

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Originally posted by KundaliniTherapist:
Mary Sue
first of all, I am sorry to hear about your grief.
if I understand you correctly, you experienced a sort of emotional disconnection or repression and when you let go, you experienced many distant memories and the next day your partner was better. Is that right?

Hi Tara:

Close enough. I believe my husband may have
some kundalini flowing himself.
After some thought i believe we were both participating in clearing some of this stuff.


Thank you Tara


Tara
"My understanding is that in a marriage we are sitting in 'one emotional boat' - we swim and sink together. Or in other words, our emotional auras are linked and we are feeling our partner s emotions, whether we like it or not.

So, it is only natural that if one partner experience healing that it will be easier for the other partner to feel better as well.

I find that these dynamics are much stronger when we are in the kundalini process.

hope this helps

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Originally posted by BlissInTheHeart:

my advice for help may sound a little strange : There is a katholic Monk in Italy. His Name is Fra Elia , he has the Stigmata, suffering from them in every holy week, he is in very close connection with Padre Pio, Mother Mary and Jesus. They have told him that his place is not in a monastry, but in this world, and that his task is to help families. He is very simple minded, and has the ability of healing, simply by praying for the peoples.
(I can witness this personally!)

Maybe you do a Google for him ("liBrother Ea" or "Fra Elia") and send him a letter, with a picture of your husband, and you)

Hope i could help!

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if the terms awakening and enlightenment are to be used with any terminological consistency (they are Buddhist terms, after all) they should be used on the basis of:

1. our innermost nature and the God's nature are one at the same
2. the human self is an illusion (how else could we discover our inherent identity with God)
3. the 'reality' that we see around us is an illusion in the sense that it is like a very real dream, from which we can 'awake'. (our illusory view of reality is linked to our illusory view of ourselves)
4. The deep-seated illusion that leads us to believe that what we perceive is real has been accumulated and hardened throughout countless life-times, which makes it so hard to give it up.